Well, I told you guys (in this previous post) that I was going through a lot in the past few weeks and that things have been stressful and that "there has been more drama in my life than a Tyler Perry play". I also said that I wasn't really free to discuss it due to the fact that it was like "pending litigation". Well, all the verdicts have been handed down and don't expect any rioting in the streets. Here goes:
My boyfriend and I have broken up. I know, I know, I know, it's okay, don't make that face. It's 100% okay, we are just in different places right now. Everything is amicable and cool. Nobody hates anybody, it was all very drama free. We are still friends. The longest relationship I've ever been in has ended (6 months, that speaks volumes about me doesn't it?). And yes love is still real and out there for you so don't stop believing in it.
My best friend and I have started speaking again. After we talked via IM a few hours ago we realized that we were both mad over the same misunderstanding. Even though this situation I'm sure has changed us both. We still remain friends.
I'm sorry this all wasn't as dramatic, cataclysmic and life-altering as I thought it would all be, but really is anything? No matter what you're going through and who it's a result of, know that you are gonna be OK, 'cuz you really are.
Blog post adjourned ((gavel bangs)).
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Playing In The Background...
"Little Drummer Boy"
by Lil' Kim feat. Cee-Lo and Redman
from the album "Notorious KIM"
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you guys broke up?
omg, i got to go take a walk right now. i cant believe this. i just cant believe this. give me sometime to digest this.
you guys are just so happy with one another. omg...i need to go.
Aw, that makes me sad. I want you guys back together now =x
Sorry to read that your relationship ended, but seems like you both were very adult about it, which seems to be rare for gay brothas at the end of a relationship. Also, seems like you walked away from the situation recognizing some good qualities about yourself. Its all about self development and progression and seems like this experience added to that. Just keep doing your thing man. Keep your head in that positive mode, and it will happen for you at the right time.
OMG! I always read your blog, but this is my first time commenting. I am so sad to hear that you guys broke up. However, I'm sure you are doing what you both think is best. You seem like a very strong individual, so I know you'll get through it. The question is, though, how am I gonna get through it? LOL!
(FYI, right after Janet came off Amerie busted in with "1 Thing"; Gotta love it; I Love My Zune [smile])
Beyond that I jus' read the juicy, which really isn't that juicy (maybe a li'l) but very downing. It was sad and bad to hear, you two seemed like such a sexy and exciting and fun and loving and awesome relationship.
Well here comes the future. Fun times ahead.
Holla!
Good song to go with what happened relating to this post is Anita Baker's "Fairy Tales". (I was jus' listening to that and it had the connection to your post, although it's kinda harsh and you two ended all good and groovy, which is tre' positive)
Another good song that I jus' heard but would be the perfect break-up song and also the perfect song to go with this post too is "Say Goodbye" by Ashlee Simpson. It's so good.