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10.29.2009:
Adam's Video Blog N°002: "The Jesus Complex"
10.27.2009:
Adam's Video Blog N°001: "The Return" feat. Jared Shuler
10.04.2009:
Mariah Carey "Memoirs Of An Imperfect Angel" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
09.26.2009:
Re: When We Assume... We're Just Like Everyone Else... aka The "Right" Way To Tell Someone You're Dating That You're HIV Positive...
09.01.2009:
Whitney Houston "I Look To You" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
08.30.2009:
LeToya Luckett "Lady Love" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
08.29.2009:
When We Assume... We're Just Like Everyone Else...
08.29.2009:
Kristinia DeBarge "Exposed" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
08.22.2009:
UGH! Not The Whole Top & Bottom Thing... Again...
08.22.2009:
Maxwell "BLACKsummers'night" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
08.14.2009:
Even Stevens...
08.12.2009:
Thank You All For Coming Out To My 26th Birthday Party! Check Out the Pics Here...
07.28.2009:
It's Gon' Be A Party Y'all...
07.28.2009:
(I Ain't Gettin' No) Birthday Sex... Birthday Sex...
07.28.2009:
I'm Ba-aaaack... (Thank You)
06.13.2009:
O, Wretched D*ck Of Mine...
04.29.2009:
The Cheater's Checklist: 10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before You Cheat On Your Partner
04.29.2009:
Follow Me On Twitter: http://twitter.com/AdamBIrby
04.11.2009:
Adam Was Dead. He Was Buried And He Is Risen Again. Presenting The Gospel Of Adam Benjamin Irby...
03.30.2009:
Check Out The Trailer For "The Hot Boyz Show"...
03.30.2009:
Utada "This Is The One" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
03.30.2009:
Keri Hilson "In A Perfect World..." My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
03.17.2009:
Check Me Out In The Dartmouth Free Press Newspaper...
03.17.2009:
He's "Straight" But He Still Wants To Suck My D*ck...
03.16.2009:
Friends Don't Let Friends Date Friends Ex-Boyfriends Unless Friends Say It's Okay, But What If You Kinda Said It's Okay, But You're Not Really Okay...
03.09.2009:
Lovers & Friends...
03.09.2009:
Utada's Back...
03.04.2009:
...Remember That First Phonecall?
03.02.2009:
YAY FOR YALE!
02.24.2009:
Guess Who's Gonna Speak At Yale This Saturday... ME!
02.24.2009:
It's Our Anniversary... Our 2nd Anniversary...
02.18.2009:
Check Out My 2nd Appearance On "The Mocha Lounge" On The LOGO Network Website AfterElton.com...
02.14.2009:
Adam Is Tired, But Blessed. A Life Update.
02.14.2009:
Album Review: Ryan Leslie "Ryan Leslie"
02.08.2009:
28 Random Things About Me...
02.05.2009:
"...Like Two Ships Passing In The Evening"
01.29.2009:
One Of The Most "Brutiful" Letters I've Ever Received...
01.29.2009:
Coming Out At Work / Let's Play "The Gay Game"
01.25.2009:
The Beauty Of Routine...
01.20.2009:
Doing The Most Patriotic Thing I Can This Inaguration Day... Generating Income Tax Revenue At MY NEW JOB!
01.20.2009:
Introducing Chester / I'm Dating Again...
01.17.2009:
Jean Pissing: Another Addition To The Too Freaky For Me File...
01.16.2009:
Book Review: Faith Evans "Keep The Faith" Memoir, Read The Book Before You See The "Notorious" Movie
01.13.2009:
Introducing: "Drama Queenz"
01.13.2009:
Christina Milian "Us Against The World" Music Video
01.12.2009:
I Heart Marc Jacobs / Papa's Got A Brand New Bag...
01.12.2009:
I'm Not Sure Exactly What Blog You're Reading, But I'ma Need To Set Things Straight Real Quick...
01.08.2009:
"I'm In Love With Somebody Who Doesn't Give A Damn About Me..." The Age Old Story **Violins Playing**
01.08.2009:
Introducing: Xem VanAdams
01.08.2009:
I Know I'm Late But, HAPPY NEW YEAR!
12.31.2008:
8 Lessons I've Learned In 2008...
12.29.2008:
I Hope Everyone Had A Lovely Christmas Weekend...
12.25.2008:
"Nah, I'm Gay..." And Proud.
12.24.2008:
I Call 'Em "Boomerang Bitches" 'Cuz They Always Come Back...
12.20.2008:
Our Little Field Trip Today Has Been Cancelled...
12.19.2008:
Okay, Can We Just Put This "No One Is Born Gay" Sh*t To Rest Already?
12.19.2008:
We're Having A Field Trip And You're Invited... This Saturday, December 20th, 2008
12.19.2008:
Listen To Me On The BBOP Podcast Show... / Book News Update
12.17.2008:
Another One Bites The Dust... Or Sucks The Cock Or However You Wanna Put It...
12.13.2008:
You Suck, Because You Don't Suck...
12.12.2008:
Check Out My Interview On "The Mocha Lounge" On The LOGO Network Website AfterElton.com...
12.12.2008:
Album Review: Keyshia Cole "A Different Me"
12.11.2008:
Album Review: Mya "Sugar & Spice"
12.10.2008:
Milking It For All It's Worth... A Movie Every Gay Person Should See...
12.10.2008:
Don't Go Calling This "Growth" Or Nothing...
12.10.2008:
Watch This: Girls Aloud "The Loving Kind"
12.09.2008:
If U Seek Britney... Just Say Her Name Real Fast.
12.08.2008:
"...Don't Know What You've Got 'Til It's Gone." A Life Update.
12.02.2008:
"...The Kindness Of Strangers", Part One
11.28.2008:
My Gay Wedding Won't Be So Gay If My Family Decides To Stay Away...
11.19.2008:
Listen To This: Britney Spears "Circus", "Blur", & "Kill The Lights"
11.19.2008:
My Interview With Isis King Of America's Next Top Model
11.17.2008:
Yeah, Okay? I'm Gay, So Now What? / How Can A Regular Person Meet Regular People?
11.12.2008:
Finding Him, At The Gym...
11.07.2008:
"I Am Cha-a-anging..." / "All By My-se-e-elf..." A Life Update.
11.06.2008:
Friendship, F**kery, Philanthropy & Philandery In Philadelphia...
11.05.2008:
He Won. Barack Obama Won.
11.04.2008:
If You Voted For Obama Say "Owwwww"... The Obama Solidarity Post.
11.03.2008:
I Hope We're All Ready To Vote Tomorrow...
11.03.2008:
The Newest British Invasion: Grace Jones, Girls Aloud, and the Sugababes And Why They Probably Won't Be Invading Anywhere Else In The US Besides This Blog Anytime Soon...
11.01.2008:
It's Official. For The Second Time In My Life I Officially Have A Crush On A Woman: Christina Milian
10.31.2008:
Now That's Scary...
10.30.2008:
So Porn Is Just What We Do Now, Huh?
10.30.2008:
"All That From The Guy Who Wants To Suck MY D*ck? Really...?"
10.30.2008:
My Blog Is: "Turkey Chili For The Gay Soul"
10.29.2008:
My Favorite Reader Letter...
10.27.2008:
Movie Review: "Noah's Arc: Jumping The Broom"
10.27.2008:
When The Going Gets Tough... I Go To The Gym. A Life Update. / Adam's Lazy Man's Guide To Fitness
10.25.2008:
Breakin' All The Rules...
10.21.2008:
The Crowded Room Full Of Lonely People. A poem.
10.19.2008:
No. A poem.
10.18.2008:
MY NAME IS ADAM BENJAMIN IRBY AND I'M A BIG 'OL BOTTOM...
10.18.2008:
"Is Voguing En Vogue For Me?"
10.17.2008:
I'm Going To See Janet Jackson Tonight!
10.17.2008:
Check Out A Sneak Preview Of The Hot Boyz Show...
10.17.2008:
Looks Matter And You Know It... Stop Lying To Yourselves / Re: What EXACTLY Are You Looking For In A Man?
10.14.2008:
What EXACTLY Are You Looking For In A Man? Here's "The Secret" To Getting Him...
10.14.2008:
Check Out My Second Appearance On "Vantage Point"...
10.14.2008:
Ummm... Errr... You Know What? I'm Good... aka "...The Truth Shall Make You Free"
10.13.2008:
Whoa! Too Freaky For Me...
10.12.2008:
41 Days And Forty-One Nights Since... aka It's Really Over, No More "Foolin'" For Me! A Life Update.
10.07.2008:
Last Night At The Paper Magazine, Patricia Fields Party...
10.07.2008:
Coming Out Is A Big Thing In A Small Town... And In A Big Town Too...
10.06.2008:
"Music Makes The People Come Together..." A Short Review Of Madonna In Concert Saturday, October 3rd, 2008 At Izod Center, East Rutherford, NJ
10.06.2008:
My Interview With Michelle Williams Of Destiny's Child & Album Review: Michelle Williams "Unexpected"
10.06.2008:
"Oh Honey..." Unfortunately You Ain't That Exceptional...
10.05.2008:
If He Was Ugly...
10.04.2008:
Am I The Only One Who Has Sexual Fantasies About Their Barber?
10.04.2008:
I'm Going To See Madonna Tonight!!!
10.03.2008:
How Many Porn Stars Have You Slept With?
10.03.2008:
Believe It Or Not, There Are People Who Don't Like Me...
10.02.2008:
Like, Why Are We Not Friends On MySpace & Facebook?
10.02.2008:
The Straight Men Have Their Say... Now I Wanna Hear From The Ladies...
09.30.2008:
Adam's Opinion On: Closeted Gay Men aka I Have NO Respect For A Closeted Gay Man... Especially The Ones That Hit Me Up Online.
09.29.2008:
Online Dating Horror Story #3: Long Distance Lover
09.29.2008:
Gays Are People Too... Even The Ones In Your Family.
09.28.2008:
Damn, There's Just No Easy Way To Say This...
09.28.2008:
Girls Aloud "The Promise" aka MY BITCHES ARE BACK!
09.23.2008:
"Well, Since You Asked..." Adam's Opinion On: Online Dating, Tongue Rings. And Mohawks
09.23.2008:
Check Out My Interview With The Hot Boyz...
09.19.2008:
Cum Hither...
09.19.2008:
Introducing: Ricky Day and Urban Pop Life
09.19.2008:
Introducing: ETERNAL BACHELOR
09.16.2008:
OH MY GOD... Somebody Finally Gets It! / Re: Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave...
09.14.2008:
"Oh Girl"/Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave... Especially When Ya A** Gets Caught In It Tryna Be Slick.../Lying 101
09.11.2008:
New Michelle Wiliams Track: "The Greatest"...
09.11.2008:
Miss Janet Is Still Nasty...
09.10.2008:
Right Sex. Wrong Person.
09.08.2008:
Re: The 2008 Black Weblog Awards
09.03.2008:
The Revolution WILL Be Televised... Tonight!
09.03.2008:
"NO SHADE" Party Pictures
09.02.2008:
Starting Over Again... Again. (With The Phonebook)
09.01.2008:
I Quit... On Labor Day. How Ironic? A Life Update.
08.29.2008:
Here We Go Again... It's Going Down Tonight...
08.25.2008:
Latex Ball Recap aka "...'Cuz He Loves The Models..."
08.22.2008:
Re: The Two Minute Bottom, "The Wet Spot", And Safe Sex In General...
08.21.2008:
A Morning Thought: "Men Are Naturally More Beautiful Than Women..."
08.20.2008:
The Two Minute Bottom aka "Damn, I Ain't Even Hardly Get It In Yet..."
08.18.2008:
GREAT NEWS! I'VE BEEN NOMINATED FOR A 2008 BLACK WEB LOG AWARD FOR "BEST LGBT BLOG", BUT WE'RE NOT OUT OF THE WOODS YET... HERE'S HOW YOU CAN HELP ME WIN... PLEASE. :)
08.13.2008:
Damn. Dayum. Damn...
08.13.2008:
Check Out My First Appearance On "Vantage Point" (For Real This Time)...
08.12.2008:
There's A New Party In Town... NO SHADE! aka I'm Offically A Party Promoter Now...
08.12.2008:
Baby's Hosting His First Party On Friday Night...
08.11.2008:
Check Out The Inaugural "No Shade" Photoshoot...
08.11.2008:
Fire Island Blackout Pics...
08.08.2008:
Well, I Must Be Doing Something Right, The Kids Are Still Talking About Me...
08.07.2008:
A Toe Update...
08.04.2008:
Pride In The City '08 Pics...
08.04.2008:
What Goes Around Comes Around And Back Around Again...
08.01.2008:
The 2008 BLACK WEBLOG AWARDS: NOMINATE ME
08.01.2008:
Listen To This: Baron. "Feel Like Fashion"
08.01.2008:
Check Out "Christopher Street: The Series"...
07.30.2008:
Another New Blogger In Town...
07.30.2008:
My 25th Birthday Party Pics...
07.30.2008:
Nigga On The Side. A Poem.
07.30.2008:
There's A New Blogger In Town...
07.28.2008:
IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!!! I'm 25 Years Old Today...
07.26.2008:
Thank You, Thank You, A Million Times Thank You...
07.25.2008:
"Tonight's The Night, Don't Be Afraid..."
07.25.2008:
Check Out The First Episode Of Season 3 Of Vantage Point...
07.23.2008:
Listen To My 3rd Appearance On Da Doo-Dirty Radio Show... Taped Live From My Place.
07.21.2008:
This Blog Does Have A Mailing List Feature, You Know? If You're Too Busy To Come To The Blog Everyday, It's Cool. Get The Posts Sent To Your Email, Cell Phone, or PDA. Sign Up Here...
07.21.2008:
Limpin' & Pimpin' aka One Toe Don't Stop No Show...
07.19.2008:
A Little Advice For All The Bottoms Of The World: NEVER Use Your Ass As A Bargaining Chip aka Pussy Ain't All That F*ckin Powerful...
07.18.2008:
The Greatest Gift...
07.16.2008:
The Agony Of The Feet...
07.14.2008:
Check Me Out On Season Three Of "Vantage Point"...
07.14.2008:
Breaking Up Is Easy To Do... With Music! aka Adam's Top 25 Breakup Songs (25-11)
07.03.2008:
The Gay Male Full Top, A Dying Breed... aka "Where Have All The Top Boys Go-o-one..."
07.03.2008:
Keep Those Cards, Letters, Emails, And Text Messages Coming...
07.02.2008:
Check Out My Interview With Michelle Williams Of Destiny's Child In The New Issue Of Bleu Magazine...
07.02.2008:
Taxicab Confessions...
06.28.2008:
Dating Sucks/Relationship Rehab...
06.28.2008:
Bleu Magazine's 2nd Anniversary Gala And Stuff...
06.27.2008:
Okay, So This Is Where We're Gonna Be For Pride...
06.19.2008:
Ain't This About A Motherf*ckin Technicological B*tch...
06.19.2008:
Oh, How The Mighty Have Fallen, Yet I Step Over Them And Continue My Day...
06.18.2008:
A Sneak Peek At The New "Noah's Arc" Movie...
06.16.2008:
A WireImage Update...
06.14.2008:
A Morning Thought:
06.13.2008:
Listen To Me On The Memphyz Unloaded BlogTalkRadio Show...
06.13.2008:
Adam Still Love The Kids... aka Baby's First Pic On WireImage...
06.13.2008:
Chicago, Here I Cum, I Mean Come...
06.13.2008:
C-C-C-C-C-C-C-Call Me, Or Rather Text Me...
06.12.2008:
You, Me And (Jermaine) Dupri...
06.12.2008:
My New Tattoos... "LOVE" and "FEAR"
06.11.2008:
A Morning Thought:
06.11.2008:
More Birthday News aka "I Found A Place Where We Can Boogie..."
06.03.2008:
Pressing The Flesh... aka "Are You Adam? Hey, I Read Your Blog..."
06.03.2008:
SEX IS IMPORTANT, DAMMIT! (Part 2)
05.24.2008:
SEX IS IMPORTANT, DAMMIT! (Part 1)
05.23.2008:
WARNING: I'm A Total Asshole Now...
05.22.2008:
It's The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year...
05.20.2008:
Why The F*ck Do We Care So Much? Part 2
05.20.2008:
Tamia Live At The Beacon Theatre In New York City 05.17.08
05.19.2008:
Strange. A poem.
05.16.2008:
The Real Tea... aka I Read The Tea And It Turned Around And Read Me Right Back...
05.04.2008:
Like Father, Like Son aka Damaged Goods aka "Sometimes I Feel Like I'm From Another F*ckin' World..."
04.29.2008:
Hey Guys... A Life Update.
04.29.2008:
Madonna "Hard Candy" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
04.25.2008:
My Interview With Tiffany Evans
04.18.2008:
This Cat's Finally Jumped Off The Hot Tin Roof... For Good This Time. I'm Single Again. + A Book Update.
04.15.2008:
I'm On Wikipedia... Again!
04.15.2008:
My Interview With CHERI DENNIS @ TheBleuMag.com
04.13.2008:
Listen To This: Joy Denalane "Born & Raised"
04.12.2008:
Sometimes. A poem.
04.11.2008:
Look! I'm On Wikipedia!
04.11.2008:
THE BLOG HAS MOVED! I'm So Glad I Didn't Lose YOU!
04.11.2008:
Mariah Carey "E=MC2" My Review @ TheBleuMag.com
04.03.2008:
Oh Lord, The "Church Boys" Are Back...
04.01.2008:
My Newest Project: THEBLEUMAG.com
03.28.2008:
Step By Step, Day By Day... aka Daddy's Little Girls aka The Post-Coital Doggy Debacle...
03.23.2008:
Companionship. An Idea Resurrected... Again. A Dating Update.
03.15.2008:
Dammit, I'm Writing A Dictionary... aka The Story Of My Words, "Bottom Belts", "Social Bottoms" And "Social Tops" And Such...
03.15.2008:
Prepared. A Poem.
03.06.2008:
That Ain't Egg All Over Your Face...
03.05.2008:
"My Dick Is Bigger Than Yours..."
02.27.2008:
Cheri Dennis Live From Splash Nightclub 2/26/08...
02.26.2008:
Being A Janet Jackson Fan Takes "Discipline"...
02.24.2008:
Will Janet Make A "MiMi-esque" Comeback With This New Album "Discipline"? Adam's Web Log Poll #5
02.24.2008:
Album Review: Janet Jackson "Discipline" + A Special Listening Session
02.23.2008:
A Lyfe Changing Event...
02.23.2008:
I'm In Love With Five Women... aka I "Can't Speak French" Either...
02.22.2008:
I Almost Forgot... It's Our Anniversary. Today Is The One Year Anniversary Of Adam's Web Log...
02.18.2008:
My First Date With Mr. Bojangles (Which Just Happens To Have Happened On Valentine's Day, A Total Coincidence)
02.16.2008:
Re-TAIL Therapy... aka I Love N.Y.
02.14.2008:
"HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! February The 14th..."
02.14.2008:
Re: It's Not About What He Knows, It's About Who He Knows...
02.12.2008:
It's Not About What He Knows, It's About Who He Knows... Adam's Web Log Poll #4
02.08.2008:
Adam, Where Art Thou? A Life Update.
02.05.2008:
Are Threesomes Just A Sexy Band-Aid For Relationship Cancer? Adam's Web Log Poll #3
02.03.2008:
No More Pity F*cking In 2008! aka Do All The Freaks Come Out Online...
02.01.2008:
The "Bros Over Hoes" Theory... What About When The Bros Are The Hoes?
01.31.2008:
We're All Just Chasing Eachother Around In A Motherf*ckin' Circle... Like Idiots!
01.31.2008:
End Of The Month New Year's Resolution Wrap-Up: January 2008
01.30.2008:
If The 2008 US Presidential Election Were Today, Who Would You Vote For? Adam's Web Log Poll #2
01.29.2008:
Another Bloggerific Weekend...
01.28.2008:
My 2nd Appearance On Da Doo-Dirty Show And His First Appearance On Mine...
01.28.2008:
Today Is My 1/2 Birthday, I'm Staring Down The Barrel Of A Loaded 25...
01.28.2008:
Keke Wyatt Live From New York At SOB's 01.24.08
01.25.2008:
Baby's Hosting His First Event: BLOGTOPIA
01.24.2008:
Re: The Birth Of A Hater...
01.23.2008:
The Birth Of A Hater...
01.22.2008:
Actor, Heath Ledger, Star Of "Brokeback Mountain", Arguably The Biggest Gay Themed Movie Of All Time, Found Dead At Age 28...
01.22.2008:
Are You A "Gold Star" Gay Or Lesbian? Adam's Web Log Poll #1
01.20.2008:
Adam-isms 1, 2, & 3: Random Time-Tested, Tried And True Things I Live By...
01.19.2008:
Teedra Moses Live From New York At SOB's 01.17.08
01.16.2008:
Some Of You B*tches Take This MySpace Thing Wayyy Too Far aka Adam's Official MySpace Grievance Post
01.16.2008:
Janet Jackson's Official "Discipline" Album Cover...
01.15.2008:
I Have The Solution To All Of Our Dating Problems... aka Am I Rich Yet?
01.13.2008:
One Of The Few Things That Even I Haven't Done...
01.09.2008:
Ashes To Ashes, Toothbrush To Garbage Pail. The Last Rites Of The Modern Day Re-GAY-tionship. A Dating Update.
01.09.2008:
Cheri Dennis: Portrait Of An R&B Songstress - The Exclusive Interview By Adam Benjamin Irby
01.08.2008:
There Are Screen Doors With Less Holes In Them Than This Conversation...
01.08.2008:
Two New Blogs To Add To Your Daily Reading... aka My Chirrens Is All Grown Up...
01.07.2008:
Making Myself Even More Accountable This Year...
01.06.2008:
The "Perfect" Man...
01.05.2008:
Maybe God Is Tryin' To Tell Me Something...
01.03.2008:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 7 - The Last Episode
01.02.2008:
"When Will We Get, The Time To Be, Just Frie-e-e-ends?"
01.01.2008:
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! aka Just In Case I Had Any Doubts That I Was A Full Fledged Homo, They Were All Reaffirmed Last Night...
12.31.2007:
My New Year's Resolutions For 2008!!!
12.31.2007:
Listen To This: Utada "Exodus"
12.30.2007:
I'm A Backslider Okay, I Know. Just Don't Judge Me. A Dating Update.
12.28.2007:
Why The F*ck Do We Care So Much?
12.25.2007:
Our First Christmas Together...
12.24.2007:
See, This Is The Typa S*it That I Don't Like... Don't Read And Run...
12.23.2007:
Things That Make You Go... Hmmm...
12.23.2007:
Maybe It's Just Me...
12.22.2007:
NEVER Say Never...
12.20.2007:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 6
12.20.2007:
Listen To This: Girls Aloud
12.19.2007:
Enrique Cruz, Behind The Scenes With Real Live Gay Porn Stars... And Me!
12.18.2007:
It's Official... Janet's Back! Uh Huh, Def Jam Told Me So... The Official Janet Jackson "Feedback" & "Discipline" Press Release, Photo, and Song Download
12.18.2007:
This Is How You Know You Are/Were A Ho... Part 2
12.17.2007:
My Morning At The STD Clinic aka I Got Tested Today...
12.16.2007:
The Definition Of A Cuddle-Buddy:
12.14.2007:
I Know Imitation Is The Sincerest Form Of Flattery... But Damn...
12.14.2007:
Listen To This: Janet Jackson "Feedback"
12.14.2007:
I've Been "Sleeping" With A Lot Of Guys Lately...
12.14.2007:
Re: I'm So F*ckin Full Of S*it...
12.13.2007:
I'm So F*ckin Full Of S*it...
12.13.2007:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 5
12.12.2007:
And The "Dirty Laundry" Plot Thickens...
12.12.2007:
"Dirty Laundry" Film Unjustly Pulled From New York Movie Theatre...
12.11.2007:
Oh Yeah, So I Drink Now... Socially.
12.11.2007:
"Damn, I Ain't Had Sex In A 'Minute'..."
12.09.2007:
Album Review: Mary J. Blige "Growing Pains"
12.08.2007:
The New York "Dirty Laundry" Movie Premiere...
12.07.2007:
When F*cking, Honesty Is The Best F*cking Policy... aka "It's Just A Fling Baby, Fling Baby..."
12.06.2007:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 4
12.06.2007:
Nikki's 7 Lessons She's Learned In 2007 aka The REAL Diary Of A Mad Black Woman...
12.05.2007:
7 Lessons I've Learned In 2007...
12.04.2007:
Album Review: Kylie Minogue "X"
12.03.2007:
Bah Humbug!
12.02.2007:
Unlike That Other Adam, I Don't Eat The Forbidden Fruits, I Stick My Dick In Them... Well, Actually I Usually Eat Them First, But Anyway...
12.01.2007:
Every Day Is World AIDS Day...
11.30.2007:
Awww Sookie Sookie Now...
11.30.2007:
Check Out The All New ABenjaminIrby.com!!!
11.29.2007:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 3
11.28.2007:
Am I A Heterophobe? Are We Hetero-Phobic?
11.28.2007:
What I'm Doing Tonight: "The New S Party"
11.26.2007:
I'm Gonna Be On Enrique Cruz's Website...
11.25.2007:
Come And Sign The New Guest Book!
11.24.2007:
How Adam Got His Groove Back...
11.24.2007:
The Theory Of Evolution. aka I Found Jesus. A Dating Update.
11.22.2007:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 2
11.21.2007:
Have Y'all Ever Noticed...
11.21.2007:
If A Picture Says A Thousand Words...
11.21.2007:
So I'm Doing Websites Again... (One More Thing You May Not Have Known About Me)
11.19.2007:
Check Out My New Interview...
11.18.2007:
This Gay Man's New Biggest Fear... aka On My Motha Effin' Grind! aka It's Good To Be Adam...
11.17.2007:
"...Just Don't Wanna Be Lonely"
11.16.2007:
Velvet Rage Lesson #3: When You Have A Problem With Someone, Speak With Him/Her About It First (Instead Of Everyone Else) (aka Interview With The Vampire)
11.15.2007:
adam. the mini-series: Episode 1
11.15.2007:
I'm So Damn Horny Right Now, I'm Dangerous...
11.14.2007:
My First "Love" Part 1
11.14.2007:
What I'm Doing Tonight: "The S Party"
11.13.2007:
I'm Featured On Enrique Cruz's Website...
11.13.2007:
My Bloggerific Weekend...
11.12.2007:
I Slept With Trent Jackson... Well, At Least That's What They Say... aka Baby's First Rumor
11.11.2007:
Sunday Morning.
11.10.2007:
Saturday Morning.
11.09.2007:
So, I'm Trying To Reconcile My New Found Notoriety With Everything I Believe In And I Keep Coming Up Short...
11.07.2007:
One More For The Road aka Let's Just F*** And Say Goodbye...
11.06.2007:
"Baby, It's Cold Outside..."
11.06.2007:
This Is How You Know You Are/Were A Ho...
11.05.2007:
Well If My Mama And Daddy Can Do It So Can I... And I'm Gonna Do It Too. You'll See. You'll See. You All Will See!
11.05.2007:
Album Review: Mya "Liberation"
11.04.2007:
10 Things You Probably Didn't Know About Adam That Have Absolutely Nothing To Do With Sex:
11.02.2007:
///There Is A Temporary Access Problem With The Blog///
11.02.2007:
You Think You Know But You Have NO Idea...
11.01.2007:
My "Flawless" Feature Is Now Online...
10.31.2007:
Yo, From Now On, I'm Just Straight Up Asking For Sex... aka F*ck The Bulls*it! Are We F*cking Or What?
10.29.2007:
Oh What A Difference Two Days Make... A Dating Update.
10.28.2007:
Album Review: Britney Spears "Blackout"
10.26.2007:
The Water Sports Etiquette Guide... And I Ain't Talkin' 'Bout Jet Skiis!
10.26.2007:
Thank You Everybody! (Shout Outs Part 1)
10.24.2007:
I'M FLAWLESS... Well At Least Nathan "Seven" Scott And "The 7 Magazine" Think So...
10.24.2007:
Just Because A Man Has Sex With Another Man, That Doesn't Make Him Gay... Really.
10.23.2007:
Apparently Being A Black Man With A Heartbeat Is A Crime... I Had To Call Al Sharpton Today... This Is Effin Ridiculous!
10.23.2007:
Old Habits Die Hard, But You Gotta Hold The Pillow Over Them Bitches 'Til They Stop Struggling... A Dating Update.
10.21.2007:
Behind These Bedroom Eyes...
10.20.2007:
I'm On The Radio, Whoa-o-o On The Radio...
10.19.2007:
Desperate Times Call For Desperate Measures... Especially When You Become Desperate Or In My Case, Temporarily Insane
10.17.2007:
But Adam, The Force Is With Me And The Motherf***** Won't Leave!
10.16.2007:
May The Force Be With YOU, Not Me...
10.15.2007:
New Features Of The Blog...
10.15.2007:
Indifferent.
10.14.2007:
So, I've Been Masturbating A Lot Lately...
10.13.2007:
"It's Amazing What A Boy Can Do..." aka I Didn't Know Jack!
10.12.2007:
A Good Girl Gone So Much Better: Rihanna Live From New York At The Nokia Theatre Times Square - 10.11.07 (SOLD OUT!)
10.10.2007:
My Phone Sex Buddy: He Cums Every Time I Call...
10.09.2007:
Just Do What The F*** You Wanna Do...
10.09.2007:
Velvet Rage Lesson #2: Adopt A Nonjudgemental Stance As Often As Possible
10.07.2007:
So You Had Sex... Your Ass Isn't The Only Thing He Saw Naked...
10.07.2007:
The 10th Anniversary Of The Best Album Ever Made: Janet Jackson's "The Velvet Rope"
10.05.2007:
Oh God...
10.03.2007:
Velvet Rage Lesson #1: Don't Let Your Sexual Tastes Be The Filter For Allowing People In Your Life
10.01.2007:
The First Book Every Gay Man Must Own: THE VELVET RAGE
10.01.2007:
Album Review: Jennifer Lopez "Brave"
10.01.2007:
Album Review: Queen Latifah "Trav'lin' Light"
09.30.2007:
The Color Purple Had Me Seeing Red Last Night...
09.30.2007:
ADAM'S RELATIONSHIP THEORY aka CancelCancel's Been Canceled
09.29.2007:
All Alone On A Friday Night... aka I'm Enough
09.28.2007:
Re: THE SUM OF ALL GAY MEN'S FEARS...
09.25.2007:
THE SUM OF ALL GAY MEN'S FEARS...
09.25.2007:
Christopher Street: The Gay Mecca. You Have To Visit At Least Once In Your Life
09.23.2007:
A4A, M4N, BGC, Not For Me aka My Third Date With Pubby...
09.22.2007:
If A Tree Falls In The Forest And No One Is There To Hear It... Eff The Tree And The Forest! I Got A Real Question For Ya...
09.21.2007:
Damn, I Guess I Do Contradict Myself... But It's A Part Of Life.
09.21.2007:
Life Would Be So Much Easier If Everybody Did This...
09.20.2007:
Dating Is Supposed To Be Fun... Right?
09.18.2007:
Saturday Night Live aka My First Date With Pubby...
09.18.2007:
Album Review: Keyshia Cole "Just Like You"
09.18.2007:
Album Review: Jill Scott "The Real Thing: Words And Sounds Vol. 3"
09.17.2007:
Yet Another Shout Out...
09.16.2007:
I Was Shouted Out Again...
09.16.2007:
Album Review: Lil' Mo "Pain & Paper"
09.16.2007:
Some Things Just Aren't Worth Fighting For aka My Second Date With Mr. CancelCancel...
09.13.2007:
Dinner With Mr. Man And Mr. Big...
09.12.2007:
I Will Not Be A Faggot. I Will Not Be A Faggot. I Will Not Be A Faggot. I Will Not Be A Faggot. I Will Not Be... (Part 1)
09.11.2007:
Janet Finally Throws MTV Some Much Deserved Shade!
09.09.2007:
I'm The Luckiest Man In The World...
09.09.2007:
A Big Pink Elephant Walks In The Room And Does A Dip Right In The Middle Of The Floor And We're Just Not Gonna Say Anything... Huh?
09.07.2007:
Who Sprayed The Roach Spray? 'Cuz They're Coming Out Of The Woodwork...
09.07.2007:
Online Dating Horror Story #2: Chim Chim Chimney
09.05.2007:
NO BLACK WEB LOG AWARD FOR ME THIS YEAR, OH WELL, HECK HELL! :(
09.05.2007:
Them Same Ones Be Talkin' 'Bout I'm Dirty, Be Readin' My Blog And Hidin' It... My Homage To Millie Jackson
09.04.2007:
Online Dating Horror Story #1: Crazy Terrorist Monster
09.04.2007:
Oh No, Not A Church Boy... Not Again...
09.03.2007:
Love's Labour's Lost...
09.03.2007:
It's Britney Bitch!
09.03.2007:
My First Date With Mr. CancelCancel...
09.03.2007:
Online Dating Horror Story #4: The Top That Wouldn't Stop aka What Part Of TOP Are You Not Getting... The "T", The "O", Or The "P"?
09.02.2007:
What A Weekend...
08.31.2007:
Did I Ever Tell Y'all The Crack Story...?
08.31.2007:
VOTE FOR THIS BLOG FOR THE 2007 BLACK WEBLOG AWARDS! **THIS IS THE LAST DAY!!!**
08.30.2007:
Dating Is Like Eggs...
08.29.2007:
Jennifer Lopez - Lady Of The Day
08.29.2007:
Girl, Don't Nobody Want 'Yo Man... Well, Maybe They Do But I Sure As Hell Don't!
08.29.2007:
I Need A Girlfriend...
08.29.2007:
The Girls Are Reading...
08.28.2007:
**3 DAYS LEFT** VOTE FOR THIS BLOG FOR THE 2007 BLACK WEBLOG AWARDS! **3 DAYS LEFT**
08.28.2007:
"I Really Am A Bottom I KNOW I Am..."
08.27.2007:
Here's The Other Half... And It's Surprisingly Not So Juicy...
08.26.2007:
My Motha F***in' New Year's Resolution! Dammit!
08.26.2007:
Lovers CAN Be Friends... Like Ki Ki Girlfriends... For Real.
08.25.2007:
There Was Porn Before Dawg Pound USA, Cocodorm, Enrique Cruz, And Latino Fan Club, Yes, Even Latino Fan Club... Learn Ya History!
08.25.2007:
Y'all Don't Know The Half... But I Want Y'all To Know The Whole...
08.24.2007:
Did I Ever Tell Y'all About The Time I Tried Viagra...?
08.24.2007:
We Have A New Address! - www.AdamsWebLog.com
08.22.2007:
Believe It Or Not, I Used To Like Girls Back In The Day, Well Not Really Girls, Just One Girl...
08.21.2007:
I Finally Went And Got Me A Facebook Page...
08.21.2007:
Mama's Comin', Hide The Porn...
08.19.2007:
Happy Birthday Fellow Leos!
08.19.2007:
"What If Somebody Did That To You?" Okay... Well Do It Then... Or Shut The F*** Up!
08.16.2007:
The 2007 BLACK WEBLOG AWARDS: I'M A FINALIST!
08.14.2007:
A Fire Rekindled...
08.12.2007:
Ewww... I Just Got Cruised In The Bathroom At Work...
08.08.2007:
When Adam Met Cheri (Dennis, That Is)...
08.08.2007:
A Tornado In Brooklyn... For Real, For Real, Maybe There Is Something To This Whole Global Warming Thing...
08.07.2007:
The 2007 BLACK WEBLOG AWARDS: NOMINATE ME
08.06.2007:
Amerie: Artist Of The Month - August 2007
08.05.2007:
Friends Don't Let Friends Get Tipsy On Their Birthday (At Least When There's A Camera Around)...
07.28.2007:
IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!!!
07.22.2007:
My BET Video Is Back Online...
07.22.2007:
Chrisette Michele: Artist Of The Month - July 2007
07.16.2007:
MY BIRTHDAY IS JULY 28th! I'M HAVING A PARTY!
07.15.2007:
Harlem Is The Gayest Place In The World... Isn't It Great?
07.13.2007:
For Those Of You Who Missed My Big Television Debut...
07.12.2007:
WATCH ME ON TV TODAY 7/12/07!
07.09.2007:
WHY I DO WHAT I DO/THE REASON BEHIND THIS BLOG...
07.08.2007:
The Funniest Movie I've Seen In A Long Time...
07.04.2007:
My Brain Has Officially Declared Independence From My Dick...
07.02.2007:
OMG! My Friend Is A Sex Worker!
07.01.2007:
"Be-e-e-e-e-e Grateful..."
06.28.2007:
I Know... I Know... I'm Terrible...
06.18.2007:
The Big Ass Raccoons Of Central Park. A Poem.
06.18.2007:
"I Just Don't Wanna Be Tied Down Right Now..." Yeah, Whatever...
06.17.2007:
She's Young... She's Cute... She Sings... She Vogues... She's Candace Jones And I Love Her!
06.17.2007:
The Cat's Outta The Bag Now...
06.17.2007:
I'm Calling My Father Today...
06.14.2007:
June 14th Is Flag Day... By The Way...
06.14.2007:
Adam Love The Kids...
06.14.2007:
I Wish They All Could Be California Boys...
06.14.2007:
Party Like A Rock... Party Like A Rock Star...
06.12.2007:
If I Ever Become An Attention Whore... Slap Me... Please...
06.11.2007:
Kiss My Black Ass... Not Literally... Even Though...
06.05.2007:
Rihanna: Artist Of The Month - June 2007
06.03.2007:
WOW! People Really Read This Thing Huh?
05.01.2007:
My Favorite Color Has Always Been Green, Vivian That Is...
04.29.2007:
No Thanks Ms. Dionne I’ve Already Seen My Future…
04.12.2007:
What I Don’t Know Won’t Hurt Me… Seriously.
04.09.2007:
Oh Yeah, That's Right. We Slept Together...
04.08.2007:
Companionship: An Idea Resurrected
04.07.2007:
See, The Reason Why My Relationships Never Work Out Is… (Part 1)
02.26.2007:
Notes On A Scandal...
02.25.2007:
To Kee Or Not To Kee. That Is The Question...
02.24.2007:
BGC A4A, M4N: The Sites Explained...
02.23.2007:
My $197 Steak...
02.22.2007:
Be Careful What You Wish For… You Just Might Get It… And Once You’ve Got It Will You Still Even Want It Anymore?
02.22.2007:
My Night At The Theatre (”In The Heights”)
02.22.2004:
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