Blog Related: December 2007 Archives

Hello my lovely readers...

That unmarked present under the tree, the one wayyyyyy in the back, that's for me right? Y'all saved me a place at the dinner table, right? In the corner, right? Oh, and make sure I get some of the white meat. 'Cuz I don't like turkey like that anyway, but if I must eat it I'ma only eat the white meat.

Nah, lemme stop...

I want to thank all of you who have stopped by, visited, read, sent me emails, and left comments all throughout the year.

In celebration of our first Christmas together I'm posting some of my favorite Christmas music.

Enjoy.

Have a wonderful day and a Merry and Blessed Christmas with your family and friends. Hopefully you're not stuck at work like me... ugh! I'm so over this.

-Adam

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Playing In The Background...
"What Child Is This"
by Vanessa Wiliams
from the album "Star Bright"

and
"Silent Night"
by Kelly Price
from the album "One Family: A Christmas Album"

and
"Hark The Herald Angels Sing"
by BeBe & CeCe Winans
from the album "First Christmas"

and
"O Come, O Come Emmanuel"
by Richard Smallwood with Vision
from the album "Rejoice"

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Someone who characterizes himself as "The Answer Man" left this in response to yesterday's blog post "Maybe It's Just Me...":

Dearheart,
It is possible you are projecting your needs onto them when they are merely being friendly. What you perceive as flirtation may simply be polite conversation in their mind.

From reading your blog it does appear you see men in very distinct categories--"a piece", cuddle buddy, hook-up, etc. Is there no place in your easy compartmentalization of your relationships for someone who is just a friend? Or must everyone be either a potential fuck or a past fuck?

Instead of asking what's wrong with other men, you might take a look in the mirror.

-The Answer Man

Obviously from the sarcastic nature and the feminine tone in which "The Answer Man" addressed me we can all plainly see that this is a read, a respectful read, but a read nevertheless. Some queen who calls herself "The Answer Man" decided to come on my blog and read me. That's fine, I realize that in writing my blog I put myself out there. The kids are not always gonna agree and sometimes people will read me and that's okay. Shit, knock yourself out, be Levar Burton for all I care, make my blog the fucking "Reading Rainbow", I don't give a damn. I love it when people express themselves here, even when their opinions differ from mine. We're all entitled to our opinions and I respect that.

But what I don't respect is for someone to come here, try to read me and be too scared to even leave a proper email address. When you comment here only I see the email address you leave me. That information is not shared with the public. Many times people have commented here and I have personally emailed them thanking them for what they said or giving them further clarification if needed. Read me to your heart's content but if you can't stand behind your words there is no validity to your read. What I do have is this person's IP address and I see that they're from right here in New York. This person may even know me.

In response to you "The Answer Man" I say thanks for your opinion. I can't really take it into any serious consideration though as your cowardice has rendered it invalid. How am I to take advice that you can't even stand behind? Next time, don't read and run.

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Playing In The Background...
"Mile In My Shoes"
by Jennifer Lopez
from the album "Brave"
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I know that a lot of people read the blog and enjoy it and that's great. I love to hear that, but a reader of this blog has taken that enjoyment to another level.

I wrote a blog post not too long ago entitled: "My 7 Lessons I Learned In '07" or something like that. Well this person copied my post word for word, my specific life experiences and all. Wherever I mentioned my name, he took my name out of it, put his name in and pawned it off as something he had written and posted it on FaceBook. People were on there giving him kudos and congratulating him on his growth when little did they know he stole the whole thing. Now I don't mind people redistributing my stuff, that happens pretty often, but give credit where credit is due and certainly don't try and pass my life experiences off as your own.

I was shown this by another reader of the blog from Washington, DC who is a FaceBook friend of this person. Reading that thing actually was a little scary, like I was in "The Twilight Zone" or somethin'. It was very spooky, almost stalker-ish. I'm sleeping with one eye open tonight.

I did confront the person about this via MySpace, let's see what kind of reply I get back.

Stay tuned...

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Playing In The Background...
"Stan" by Eminem
from the album
"The Marshal Mathers LP"
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Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile

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